What changed?

 Have you ever wondered why men have to finish first?

Imagine this, you meet a guy and he seeexxyyy. After, hanging out with him a few times or that first night ;) you start getting a little frisky, a little dirty, and a whole lot of oooooohh yes. Hopefully. Ever wonder why he seems to want to sleep or doesn't seem as focused on the sexual activity after he has “busted a nut”. Well, here’s the thing, I have some insider information on why this is. All my information, was given to me by a man, who will not be named because this is against the “Bro code”. Here it goes, truth is after a while they don’t care because they get comfortable. Foreplay, becomes a job and her perceived potential is now limited, so what’s the point in continuing.

Here is an example;

Example one:

 Ok well here it goes, well a guy wants to get to know you and he really likes you, (who wouldn’t your amazing). At, this point his main focus is wanting to show you that he can please you and be the only one you can satisfy your every need. He holds the door, for you. You have lots of meaningful conversations and have found activities that both of you enjoy and find interesting. You are connecting on emotional, physical, and a mentally levels.

He comes home from work/class lays down and we want to know how our man is doing. He says “everything is aright” and you cuddle for a while. You decided to get into something a little more "comfortable". He looks, he gets excited and takes that down. (Fun time). He makes out with her, he stops half way and puts on music and makes out with her more aggressively. He puts his hand in her pants and gets her excited. She starts to moan. Now, everyone takes off their clothes, hey it’s a party. They begin in missionary, then switch to cowgirl ;) (tha's a smooth transition), and finalize with doggy style. Now, doggy style last the longest. This is not a coincident. He wants it to last long because it’s his favorite. In this position it feels like he has the most control over him finishing first. So, he continues in this position and she says stop lets do something else. Nooo, this is good, why you can’t handle it. He continues then there is a silence and then he says I came.

Reasoning: He gets comfortable to the point that he no longer buts your needs and desires first. He probably still loves and cares about you but he becomes settled with what he expects from you as a person. Therefore, he settles with the things he does with you.

   

Why: The reasons why this happens is based on the individuals in the relationship. The best way to stop this is having strong communication with your partner and realizing when the relationship is becoming settled.